MAKING
CONTACT
So many times we
come in contact with others from other different cultures, whether it’s at
work, shopping or school. As we try to communicate with different individuals I
sometimes find myself changing to understand them or helping them reach some in
the store. I try to meet their needs, and if I need to talk like them I try. If
I have to change my tone so they can understand I will, because when you see
someone needed a helping hand, and you are able wouldn’t you help? When we were
overseas in a different culture most of the people in Japan were very kind
because we did not understand a lot of the rules, but they helped my family
understand their culture. Learning some of their cultural beliefs helped my
family to get alone in the country. Sometimes I see individuals needing help or
understanding so I use my knowledge gain of other cultures to help. There are many barriers we can face
when communicating with people from other cultures and this is called
intercultural communication (Beebe, Beebe & Redmond, 2011). We have to go
the extra mile, so we understand others who may be different from us. We have
to accept the challenges and break the barrier with effective
communication. I do find myself toning my tone down if I can be a help to
others.
References
Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J.,
& Redmond, M. V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to
others (6th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.
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Sandra, looks like have had a wonderful opportunity in inter-cultural communication. Better yet, in inter-cultural living. I wish I could go to Japan one day. Also, you are right about toning down to be able to communicate effectively, and of course to be culturally responsive definitely helps. Thank-you.
ReplyDeleteAWesome Post! I am on the same page of working with peers to tone down their tone until you stop and listen you do not realize how loud you can be and how it affects the way you teach as well. We do have to go the extra mile, or step out of your comfort zone.
ReplyDeleteGreat post! I have tried this approach at work someof us as adults try to out talk others when we should be listening. I find myself not quick to comment but instead listening to hear what is being said.
ReplyDeleteHi Sandra, I like that you said you change to reach people. I do the same thing and I think you have to. If I am in a meeting I try to speak very proper, others times I find myself lapsing into the local patois to be understood by those I am trying to communicate with. It's about being sensitive to the needs of others and the best way to communicate with them. I can tell from your post that you are a compassionate person who cares about others! Thanks for sharing! Delores
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