RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION
“Human relationships, and the effects of
relationships, are the building blocks of healthy development” (Shonkoff &
Phillips, 2000, p.4)
Relationship and partnerships are very important to
me because I have come to realize you need one another to build solid
foundation. Meaning tradition, morals, goals, and a greater outcome when
partnerships work together, really who don’t want help. As a child growing up
my mother had help with raising us from her sisters, sister-laws, and my
grandmother. I can remember the family gathers, and all the wonderful smells
during the holidays around my home. So when I was married we made vows to always
communicate to one another, and deal with life problems together as a couple,
and family. I and my husband partnered with our children teachers to support
our children as they develop. We also partnered with our local church in the neighborhood
center to be a committed family, and support the activity for youth. It was not
always easy raising four teens at the same time, but because of the
relationship with our children we made it through and we have four wonderful
adult children. Due to the partnership I and my husband have, and the knowledge
I have gain as an Early Childhood Professional, I have use my skills to support
my children during their early years. As a family involve with their children,
teacher, pastor, and other family members it has made a difference in our lives
and our children lives.
“The family seems to be the most effective and
economical system for fostering and sustaining the child’s development. Without
family involvement, intervention is likely to be unsuccessful, and what few
effects are achieved are likely to disappear once the intervention is
discontinued.” (Bronfenbrenner, U. 1974)
I can truly say my parents, family, teachers, and
managers who has made an impression on me, and that’s why I continue to build
new relationship, which often turn into great lasting partnerships. Would you
like some help developing a lasting relationship?
References
Weiss,
H., Caspe, M., & Lopez, M. (2006). Family involvement makes a difference.
Retrieved from http://www.hfrp.org/publications-resources/browse-our-publications/family-involvement-in-early-childhood-education
Halgunseth,
L., Peterson, A., Stark, D., & Moodie, S. (2009). Family engagement,
diverse families, and early childhood education programs: An integrated review
of the literature. Retrieved from http://www.naeyc.org/files/naeyc/file/research/FamEngage.pdf
That is wonderful that you made that commitment with your husband and children's teacher and church. It is great to have communication with your family and the people around you. Part of relationships are based on communication and its wonderful that you have that.
ReplyDeleteI love how you described your family experiences. Along with the picture you posted, I was able to picture vivid images of holiday and mealtime with your family. The thought of those times with family is very comforting. It is those experiences that help build strong family bonds and build traditions that families can engage in together for many years.
ReplyDeleteDear Sandra,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing. I admire the vows you made at your wedding: communication at all the time. This must the principle that builds health relationship. Also, might be a good example of building healthy teach-parent relationship.